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    useless advice

    Alot of students are in the same boat. Some manage, some break up. 20 months is quite a long time for a relationship that might still be new but it can be done. I have a friend who goes back DURING the semester as well as the break at the end of a semester to see his GF. With the new schedule, You should be able to take a weekend off and relax(I haven't analyzed the 1st semester's schedule but for the 4th semesters..... WEEK 6 FRIDAY PARTY AT LEVATOR's PLACE!).

    If you are really concerned then just put ring on her, goto the court house, sign the papers and bring her down. There's a spouses club here for emotional and mental support for spouses. Going to the beach and shopping all day. I can totally see why they need the support group...
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    Quote Originally Posted by microphage

    If you are really concerned then just put ring on her, goto the court house, sign the papers and bring her down.
    Why not? I mean, it's already been 2 yrs...surely you have it figured out by now she's the one.

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    devil's advocate

    Quote Originally Posted by AssyrianSkipper
    well, i just dont know if i want to get married now.....you know i have heard that med school is hard on all relationships.....i have come to believe that if we break as boyfriend and girlfriend it is better than her divorcing me........i am the type that wants to do marriage once....also she has her own career goals......she just bought a house......she is looking to go to MBA school here in a year........i guess this relationship is really just doomed........i am just going to go to school and focus on studying and this relationship well probably fall apart into nothing.....hmm i sounded very optimistic here dont i......
    Heh heh, hmmm, heh heh. You said "hard-on"

    Actually, in all seriousness, it sounds like you've made your decision already. Best of luck, and see you in a few.

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    useless advice

    Quote Originally Posted by microphage
    Alot of students are in the same boat. Some manage, some break up. 20 months is quite a long time for a relationship that might still be new but it can be done. I have a friend who goes back DURING the semester as well as the break at the end of a semester to see his GF. With the new schedule, You should be able to take a weekend off and relax(I haven't analyzed the 1st semester's schedule but for the 4th semesters..... WEEK 6 FRIDAY PARTY AT LEVATOR's PLACE!).

    If you are really concerned then just put ring on her, goto the court house, sign the papers and bring her down. There's a spouses club here for emotional and mental support for spouses. Going to the beach and shopping all day. I can totally see why they need the support group...

    i must have missed something... you must have a really small class to want to have a party in a dorm room.... plus.. you fourth semesters can have your party... i will be in 5th
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    thx

    Quote Originally Posted by AssyrianSkipper
    sometimes it takes another person to point out that have i already made my decision......i finally realized i did....

    thx all,

    skipper,
    Wow, all it took was a bunch of people you've never seen or even know if they exist. I wish your gf can read this...

    Personally, you can have both. No sacrifices, just compromises(I know I'll pay dearly for it when we get back to the states..... ) but it's all worth it in the end. Give up a few percentage points to be with your significant other, I can live with that(well, that and spend lots of time on Valuemd).
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    devil's advocate

    Quote Originally Posted by AssyrianSkipper
    i agree having your significant other with you would be great.....but i personally know that if i pop a ring to her right now.....she would say no.....so it makes the situtation harder......i dont think neither one of us is ready......i just dont know how to keep a relationship going over distances and a phone......hell i am not even good at having a phone conversation......i just have this funny feeling that the distance will kill our relationship.....our agreement as of now is that she is coming down for 10 days when i move there next week....then i come home xmas, and break between april and may and she comes for summer and i go back xmas break.....so basically we will see each other every 4 months for 1 to 2 week period.......in theory this might work....and as of now she really isnt too exicted to move to where i do clinicals....even if i can do them in one place....so you see it isnt just me....i am making the same decision she is...my goal is to go there hit the books and be focused.....i just dont want half my head in florida and the other half there........that is why i said earlier i am going just focus on the books and what happens happens........

    skipper,

    It seems like you have both already made the decision not to invest too much into your relationship at this point...wouldn't it be easier to end it now before you start? So many people just "go through the motions" and wait to see what will happen when they know all along what needs to be done.

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