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    Quote Originally Posted by wifeofDr2b
    Quote Originally Posted by AssyrianSkipper
    i agree having your significant other with you would be great.....but i personally know that if i pop a ring to her right now.....she would say no.....so it makes the situtation harder......i dont think neither one of us is ready......i just dont know how to keep a relationship going over distances and a phone......hell i am not even good at having a phone conversation......i just have this funny feeling that the distance will kill our relationship.....our agreement as of now is that she is coming down for 10 days when i move there next week....then i come home xmas, and break between april and may and she comes for summer and i go back xmas break.....so basically we will see each other every 4 months for 1 to 2 week period.......in theory this might work....and as of now she really isnt too exicted to move to where i do clinicals....even if i can do them in one place....so you see it isnt just me....i am making the same decision she is...my goal is to go there hit the books and be focused.....i just dont want half my head in florida and the other half there........that is why i said earlier i am going just focus on the books and what happens happens........

    skipper,

    It seems like you have both already made the decision not to invest too much into your relationship at this point...wouldn't it be easier to end it now before you start? So many people just "go through the motions" and wait to see what will happen when they know all along what needs to be done.
    SO it's like having baggage that doesn't wanna get picked up by either party.
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    being separated from a significant other

    Hey Skip, I understand what you're going through. Physically, emotionally, mentally - - you're connected to someone who really means alot to you. Being away from that person is going to be really hard. You are right that focusing on your studies and going ahead with med school is /should be your priority right now, and what happens happens. I'm in the middle of a situation with my husband. But we decided, if our love for each other is strong enough then we will definetly find each other after med school is over. We'll just be putting our relationship on a hiatus right now. Even people with spouses in the military have to see their loved ones go away for months and months before getting to finally see them again.

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