Are these automated post match surveys or are these exclusively addressed to you? Program directors aren't allowed to see where you ranked them, just where you ended up. I'll be honest with you - if I was a PD and you told me you were ranking my program #1 and you didn't I'd be pretty pissed. You may have already burned these bridges, so not responding may not hurt. I personally wouldn't recommend telling any program they were your #1 on the ROL unless they truly were because it may come back to bite you in the behind. The medical community is a lot smaller than you think.