
Originally Posted by
medgeek143
Just three points:
1. Don't say "why do you continue to ask". Rather ask yourself "Why do you continue to write in these forums and discuss residency, when you can not give them an answer". I ask because this is a forum for discussion.
2. There is a HUGE difference between your first reply and this one. I appreciate your time. This reply makes me feel that you have a sound grasp of the residency process and things are definitely clearer to me. Your first reply as RUDE and BASELESS, and my perception of you from that reply was that you have absolutely no knowledge whatsoever about the residency, and you are here to just let people down. You did not say that my chances are any better in your second reply, but the reasoning you gave was sufficient for me to respect you as a knowledgeable person. People like me come to these forums to learn the 'truth', based on facts and reasoning and you have provided me that. Thanks.
3. I did not get upset for not getting good news. I was upset with your rudeness and no reasoning. I have come across people in several forums who are there just to play being spoilsports.
Honey you have come to a number of the threads ,basically asked the same questions over, and over, and over....and over.
You are not a great applicant...and it doesn't matter that some pd screwed you over, that your hubby can't or won't make you a deal breaker when it comes to getting a job...it is what it is...and come on your USCE Ibarely that....remember there are THOUSANDS of fresh faced, straight out of med school, with TWO YEARS of USCE in hospitals where they were able to touch pts....observerships are the bottom of the barrel USCE...and PD AND RC know this...who do you think they are gonna pick...someone who has stellar scores, consistent hospital based USCE who are gonna dedicate their time to their residency or you...a person who has already shown that medicine isn't her 1st priority? Sure no one is EVER going to tell you taking 3 yrs off is a deal breaker, but it raises the red flag, what happens if she gets pregnant again? Is she gonna take time off during residency and leave us stranded? NOT the reason you should say you took time off...and PD screwed you and you are announcing to another prospective PD...one easy enough for PD to find out the viewpoint from the other side and gonna think...if she feels screwed by MY program what is she gonna say about me?? Blaming someone else for your lack of residency is not taking ownership of your mistakes that led you to be a 4 yr out med school grad with no plan b.
And you keep asking for "advise" but really want someone you to hand you names of places you can go to...you want someone else to do your leg work and then your reap the rewards...like RJ said, no one is gonna give up that kind of valuable info to an anonymous person...we ALL have friends that are still looking as well and when I know of places with unexpected openings or have friends at other programs that can keep with a spot...I'm telling my friends...not some stranger on vmd.
Have you even done a smidgen of the advice that has been given to you? You have had people (yes many of us are friends in the real world) who are residents or med students who have successfully navigated the interview season and succeeded...sure KG isn't the typical visa requiring ( and ended up NOT needing one) Canadian in anyway shape or form, but man did she learn EVERYTHING there was to know about the process for visa holders...and RJ who had red flags in his application still managed to match in anesthesia...it is not by accident that he did so...it took hard work, and full knowledge of what he needed to do to get a spot...
Apply widely? We mean apply to practically every program that your stats will let you...broadly. IT MEANS APPLY TO FM, PEDS, IM, etc..and apply to every type of program...community uni affiliated even uni programs if you actually make their cut...will it be expensive? You betcha...expect to spend a few grand...maybe even 10k on the application cycle...what part of that do you not understand.?
And sweetie...you don't have to come here if you are not getting anything out of it...
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