so a few months ago i read a long detailed multi-part blog on the relationship of filmmaker Kevin Smith (of Clerks fame) and his hetero life mate, Jason Meyes. this blog walked the reader through the ups and downs of the friendship through Jason's addictions. recently, i found a site that had the entire experience saved. please find time to check it out.
it's a heavy read but a very good one.

Me and My Shadow at Bi Bri.Com

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But remember that, even when those who move you be kings or men of power, your soul is in your keeping alone. When you stand before God you cannot say "but I was told by others to do thus" or that "virtue was not convenient at the time." This will not suffice. Remember that.